WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU

Hello kings and queens! We are adding a new segment to Anneseme.com called, “Ask Annese“.

We want to hear from you. Send your questions, request, and advise to tawny@urbnsocial.com. We will post (anonymously) for a Q&A. This is a platform to air things out, even if it’s dirty laundry. Let’s clean house and get it out, this is a no judgment zone!

 BOY BYE

“I’ve been dating a guy who lives in a different state for the past two years. I’ve known him for over 10 years when we decided to give it a go. At the beginning things were great, we saw each other every few months and he even surprised me by flying out to see me while at a conference. Then things took a turn.

His schedule became more demanding and we weren’t spending any time together…phone calls became far and few in between. Text messages slowed down and his reasoning was work is demanding. In the back of my mind, I’m thinking is he cheating on me”? He’s tried to reassure me that he isn’t cheating and that his new position requires long hours and traveling. He said that this is an opportunity that he may never get again and he doesn’t want to have any regrets.

I think that I’ve come to the end of the road in this relationship. CEO’s of fortune 500 companies manage to have a successful career, relationships, and family. There are only so many excuses”!

Anonymous

Is he cheating, working hard for the money or should she be patient and see how things pan out? Would you sacrifice your relationship with a significant other, friends and family for your career, or is he just a straight up liar trying to have his cake and eat it too”? “Boy Bye”!

Ok..chime in. What advice do you have with her? Should she try to stick it out or punch the gas and get out of dodge?

xoxo,